Why do I even answer the phone at work. He calls, he wants to know what my excuse was for not going to BIL's party Saturday night. And than uses it as reason for not coming back.."so how much longer are we going to do things separate?" "I might as well not come back if we're doing this"....what the heck does that mean? Out of the blue he says this, just because I had made plans to do something else Saturday night, I didn't want to go to BIL party by myself it's an hour drive.
H decides that he's going and can't come out and ask me if I want to go? I didn't even know S19 was going with him until Saturday morning because H told him to meet our house. Then H can't even say goodbye when he leaves! Has to play mind games with me last Friday about if I was going or not instead. He's unbelievable. I told him I had to get off the phone, he said why, I said because you're not being very nice to me. He asked me something else, I say again I have to go, wants to know why. I say because you're mad about something. Then tells me he went up to try to put tree stands up and nobody was around, so and so wasn't home, I didn't get anything done and my knees hurt, my back hurts, I'm getting old, blah, blah. No one's going to throw me a 50th b-day party, blah, blah, it's a year away for one thing!
I said why didn't you call me I would have helped you put them up. He said I don't want you to you have to watch S3, maybe I should have took him and he could have run around in the woods and gotten lost. Then, I don't care about S19, all he wants to do is drink, blah, blah, blah.
I should have said no I don't want you to come back home, I don't want your negative, poor me, attitude in our house anymore.
He then wanted to know of S3 asks about him? I said no he doesn't, he's young he's getting used to it. It's the truth, he doesn't ask about H, when he's going to be home, etc. he just knows he'll be by eventually..
I said to his "not coming back" H you have to decide, you know what I want. I've told you enough times you have to decide. He said I can't decide anything anymore or something like that...
Arghhhhh!!!! Do I have to take his calls at work anyway? He's never pleasant...
