We both work together and recently started to work on the same shift which I thought would help us; however, she announced the separation right after. Most people at work think we have a great relationship and are very happy. They do not know what is going on. I have only talked to 2 close friends at work. I do not think she has told anybody yet. I think she would feel bad because everyone thinks that I am a great guy.
The other day we were working in the same area and I was going to break. I nodded her way but did not say anything to her. Someone else noticed this and said to her that they sensed tension. She did not like this and said something to me that night at home. I responded by saying "so it is OK for you not to talk to me at home and act like everything is OK at work and I am supposed to be OK with this". She did not say anything. I also have noticed that she looks my way if we are in the same area and smiles but if we are on the same break, she will go somewhere else and not want anything to do with me.