Hey, limbo, I thought I would stop by after a little reading of your sitch. Tell me, why does the idea of the family vacation terrify you? what did it have to do with the A? Or was it that y'all didn't get along very well on other vacations? One thing I have had to do, is to ignore most of my H's dumba** little behaviors that ordinarily would make me so mad. He has said the past couple of vacations have been great with no arguing, if he wants to do something his way, fine. I feels good to let go of the responsibility for everything.
I have those feeling of not being connected to H at times, and I feel unhappy and sometimes almost depressed, but it passes. It's like we have done so much work on our M's, and they have reaped all the benefits, (well, we have reaped them, too) and now when we would like them to not act like everything is business as usual, it's enough to make us crazy.
Do y'all have a date night? Or do you leave notes where he can find them? Just an idea. Or give him the book, The 5LL.
Have to go, H is due home any minute, and still does not know who my support group is.
