Hi Stuck,

Thanks for your response and support. I am trying to learn from everyone on here and their stories.

I was doing good the last two weeks until I came upon some stuff that she left out. This is where I discovered she is planning on moving, filing for D, and making out a wedding list. This is too much to handle. I want to tell her she is making a mistake, but I know that will not help and she is probably very confused and her emotions are racing. I also don't want to bring it up because she will think I am snooping unless she left this stuff out on the table on purpose.

I just wish I could talk to her and let her know what I now understand about mistakes we both made and that we can fix it if she believes.

Does anyone think I should write her a letter and let her know how I feel and what I have learned?