First of all, don't leave the house. If she's that unhappy, then she should be the one to leave.
Second, don't take all of the stuff she's dishing about it all being your fault. Nobody "forced" her into an A. It was her choice and decision. All WASs like to blame their spouses for their indiscretions. It makes it easier for them to not accept responsibility and blame.
Third, start detaching from your W. She doesn't care for anything that you do anyway and there's nothing you can do to change her mind. You can't control her actions, so you do what you can and control your own.
Sorry to see that you're here with the rest of us, but don't lose heart. You'll find a number of success stories here and great people to help you through this bad time.
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M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
