Coach - if you do get a DB caravan going, perhaps it can knock some sense into her as well.
Nobody can knock some sense into her right now. There is nothing that anybody can say or do that will change her mind right now. I know it hurts, and I know it's hard. But, that's the reality of the situation.
She has to miss you! That takes time! She has to heal emotionally! That takes time!
It takes a lot more time than we want it to!
Leave her alone. Don't initiate any communication with her...if it takes a week, or if it takes a year! Don't do it!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
