Thank you for your support. You both bring up some good points. I sent my response last night and here is his reply:
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I can't tell you how much I appreciate this email. I really need to focus on doing a good job on this communication training so I am happy to wait until next week. Thanks for understanding.
Odd. Not what I expected but you know what they say about expectations. Seems I DB'd him without even realizing it. He's "appreciative" and thanks me for "understanding?" I thought I was sending a stern response of no, we can't meet tonight, no, I'm not giving you that form. Where in my email was I showing any kind of understanding??
The communication training he refers to is a three hour session he's teaching about communication in the workplace. He feels it will be a foot in the door for other similar positions. Too bad it's in OW's town 200 miles away where he pretty much lives now.
That's one of the reasons I can't fight this any longer. He's "in love" with another woman and her city as well.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
