Wow what a great extended weekend - H seems to be changing inside and out. Taking a lot of responsibility for the past. Kept catching me trying to avoid old problem sitches and reminded me that it wasn't me - it was his drinking that caused those responses. He was even ok when the kids started to hang out with us and said it felt good.
Another good thing was my annual evaluation - the best one I ever had. I am celebrating. Guess I figured things out this past year in areas other than my M.
It made me think about how much A affects the lives of others and not just the person drinking. H has me re -thinking problems that came up and my role in them vs the role of A.
