Keel-hauled, but, more time with my kids

[25yearsmlc]

And remember, I am originally from Brooklyn, anytime you need me to TALK to your wife - "pretty please", I welcome the opportunity,ya know?

What? Oh, that baseball bat? Um, it's for playin' stickball in the alley. And yeah, I'd like to TALK to her too...(hey BegMind, I got your back!)...

Oh, in case this does get printed out, we are ALL kidding around, just helping FIB cope with his vitriolic psycho stbxw, who's traits are such a bad combo b/c God knows, I prefer KIND HEARTED crazy people...(but maybe that's just me... ) FIB's w has the worst "Skill set" for a mother that I've seen in a long time...and is self righteous about it!

FIB, doesn't her family "get" ANY of this? They must have seen her assuming the fetal positions, and all the crying, and don't they know about ANY of the OM --and what on earth do they think you've done that justifies her present behavior? I mean, even if you were the most self centered workaholic doctor, how long has it been since that time was over? Are you the world's best actor? I mean do they think YOU are lying about everything, that you are a bad father, or is it that

" hey--she's our daughter and no matter what she does, that's ALL that matters"?

I have a childhood friend who became somewhat like your w. She was very selfcentered, neurotic, vain, and in my gf's case, she also started drinking heavily. She cheated on her h more than once, and eventually her h filed for div, and this SHOCKED my friend and outraged her!...seriously she was SO indignant, among other things. But in that case, when the time came, her own dad told the court that the kid belonged with his father, NOT my friend. I know this crushed my gf b/c after all, her own father was not supporting her as a mother, but her dad did right by his grandson. Don't your inlaws care about them enough to be honest about this? My gf's dad did right by his grandson but it obviously helped his former sil, the ex h of my gf and that infuriated her. She saw it as "a conspiracy" in that...you know, "men sticking together"..not that her dad simply saw through her antics. Point being, not all parents/grandparents are blind to reality.

Well Okay....FIB, hope you are alright. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
TTYS,

((( j )))