Sorry, I should have wrapped that 2X4 in Charmin so it wouldn't hurt to much.
I'm just a firm believer in NOT giving to much when OW is still in the pix. Ask yourself, if you had another man in your life that you were being intimate with, do you think your H would stand by while you bounced back and forth between the two of them? I think NOT. So why do you allow yourself to be the girl behind door # 2? It's NOT fair to you...and it's an easy out for him. T2