Dang! He sure has lost the plot, but that was some time ago, I think
Yep I actually think that 'plot' is turning into hectares
I'm really proud of myself actually b/c only a few weeks ago I would have risen to the bait immediately and either phoned him or contacted my L (or both). I did think about both those things but then decided I would wait and see what actually happens. As I haven't heard a dicky bird from his L since the beginning of April and given his previous MO this was probably meant to be the catalyst to set off another load of MLC bullshit. Well H that button don't work anymore.
I've just been on the phone to D18. Originally I had rang her and as we were talking about D13s bday at the weekend I told her about the proposed trip to Czech Republic. She too thinks H has lost the plot. I didn't stay on long as she was revising for her last exam. However she rang me back a few mins later to say she had made arrangements with her sister about seeing each other on Saturday. She said she raised the issue of the aforementioned trip and D13 sounded pretty fed up about it all. Apparently D18 said 'sounds to me like Dad has completely lost the plot and he just wants to be rid of you for a few weeks' D13 replied that this was exactly the thought that her and S16 had had.
I feel karma beginning to take shape. I've waited, not always patiently, but now hopefully the two younger kids are starting to see for themselves the exact nature of the R H wants to have with them and it doesn't match up to thier expectations.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15