You caught me.. I was talking about those critical 5 seconds, in golf that is.
I always marveled at the folks who could read the future based on a few actions and make decisions on those projections. Me.. I was more of a "go with the flow" with a "slam on the brakes, holy cow!" moments.
Am I rambling? If you're upfront with where you are, what your boundaries are and you treat each other with mutual respect.. what's the problem?