"I lose my humor, my mojo, my wit, my sexy side. The exact things that attracted him in the first place to me. How is that possible? I don't know."
You have been reading too much SmileyPerson..
It usually happens because we feel "safe" with the Flat and Familiar. We don't want to rock the boat so to speak. What if's.. come to mind here. I have told you I have been right in the middle of Flat and Familiar.. and I did not want to rock the boat. I found that you just gently have to start paddling the other way. You don't have to make drastic changes or yell and scream or even tell them you are doing it. Simple, small things are still the way you win. We think so often that a "drastic" change is needed yet so many times just changing 1 small insignificant thing changes the direction of things drastically.
I am changing my direction and headed home. Good night.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
