Quote: I think it says a lot about us, this codependency, we really do need to HEAL ourselves in order to free ourselves from accepting this abuse of our lives, our trust, our love.
Ohh so true, but I am ever so slowly, baby steps actually, not accepting the abuse from H any longer. I allowed him to do this, it was easier then standing up for myself, but it slowly eroded away my self esteem and my self worth. Now that I have both back I don't want to lose them again.
It's been almost six month since the bomb and thing are ever so slowly changing, but there's lots more work to be done.
