Are you listening to everyone else? You are worrying about things you have no control over.

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Not sure if she's taking to heart what I said last week about giving the boys false hope


Nope not sure either, doesn't change a thing.

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That's probably why she's not going to baseball tonite. Argh!!!


right let's not let the boy's have false hope but you will think the worst instantly.
Maybe she is going to IC but is embarassed to say anything, maybe she is tired and just chilling out, maybe she is getting a life, maybe she has work to do.

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I want to talk to her about this but am afraid that will just make it worse


Ya think the talking will make it worse? How has it worked for you so far?

You need to get out of your own head. How do you deal with setbacks at work?
If you call and ask what is up, I swear I will get a DB caravan heading to PA from across the country all wielding 2x4s. Just kidding CIPA, take care of yourself. Confront your fears they are not as powerful as you make them out to be. This won't last forever and it won't kill you.
You will enjoy your kids, root for both teams at the game and help someone else while you are there. You have a choice in how you handle this.
Cheers
Coach

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.