Cathy, Hi, yes, I do absolutely believe you can do it while separated...hell, I'm separated and have been this time since mid April. We've done some of our best healing during this separation. I know I have and continue to come a long way as the weeks pass. I feel like Popeye in some ways, like I've downed some magical can of spinach that is giving me strength I never thought I'd have. I don't know if my new stength will make for a M...but it will definitely make for a stronger more independant me and if I can't be a wife to my H ever again...at least I'll be a better friend to myself. T2
