Also, imagine the build up to him leaving. Now, here is, feeling like a failure and he's stuck. He is not going to first thing go to "I blew it, I shouldn't have done this." He is going to struggle to make it work and make it make sense and save face and feel right in his decision. You know? If he does come back, should it be because he doesn't have the money to finance the life he really wants? Sometimes I don't give a cr*p, I just want H home but, without any growth? Not sure. Give it some time.
