I think you may have also let him get away with it long enough that he thinks it is fine to be a sh!t. You know you will be fine either way, but I would address it and say that he can't treat you this way. If he can't get it together I believe his car is still in the garage and hand him a blanket and pillow.

hang in there. kat

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