Quote: Its gonna take him some time to figure out if and how to get back across and is probably looking for some encouragement that you will be still be there if he takes the journey.
This is what my sis has been saying all along...he's afraid you're not going to wait for him. Thus the reason he wants to know what I'm doing, the bf questions, am I happy, etc.
The fact that he thanked me for helping him with the faucett was a giant step! I mean a huge step since I don't think he's ever thanked me for helping him with anything in a long, long, long time. So there was the one major positive that came from the conversation earlier wasn't it.
Quote: He doesn't know if he has done to much damage or if he can step over cindered boards.
In a way he makes it sound like he left because I wasn't happy or left to see if I would be happier without him there...I don't know.
Quote: The way I think H sees it, bridges were being burnt when M was falling apart. Now he looks across over the smoldering structure wondering if there is ever a way to get back. He doesn't know if he has done to much damage or if he can step over cindered boards.
Hmmm this is really good. "if he has done to much damage" if H wants to he can do anything. I know it's going to be hard for him at first, but things will get easier, I don't think he realizes that or thinks he's worth it.
But, thanks KAW for making me feel better. I love the way you word things.
