Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

Update:
More positives..we finished our last couples communication class last night and H said he never thought he'd say it, but he got a lot out of the class and was glad we took it. He even talked to the therapist who ran the class about taking us on as clients(MC!-NEVER thought I'd hear him say that!!!)..He is still hedging bets-not committing to moving home/recomitting to me, but defnitely getting closer to me emotionally and physically.
Still thinking about buying a smaller home with me...little things.
I'm trying to remain upbeat and supportive. H is still depressed. I still worry a lot that things will somehow regress and he'll move on without me. I'm still scared I'll be hurt even more. Scared of rejection.
But I try to focus on the positive-which there is more of than in the last few months!