I strongly disagree with this. If NOTHING is going on, you will look like a fool, and if SOMETHING is going on (and I believe it is) then you are asking a PREDATOR to be respectful and honorable.
Ain't gonna happen.
If he wants to confront someone, he should confront his WIFE. But only after he has hard proof. Puppy
Puppy - I totally agree with you on this. In my stich, OW's H made this appeal to my H. Just made my H more determined to bump things up with OW. OW had fed H with such "woe is me" junk about her H and her marriage that my H felt more determined to defend her and just added more hatred toward her H.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
