What I don't understand is the fact that he came back to us. I wanted my family, but didn't beg or even ask him to come back. I was on my own. He was free and clear to do whatever he wanted, which is what he desperately wanted for months. Why take all of this out on me when he made the decison to come back? It just still all confuses me. It doesn't really make me anywhere near as sad or angry, just still confused.
Sue,
What's confusing about it? He gets the best of both worlds this way -- both plates spinning on each stick. When when slows down and starts to wobble, he can go spin the other one up to speed.
I don't understand why the status quo is acceptable to you?
Then again, my own situation is non-understandable to many (including me somedays!), so I'm one to talk . . .
