Another part of the conversation when I said I would have liked to go to the party. I said I would have like to have gone, but then you wouldn't have. He then said why would you want to do anything with me, I'm so mean..which is what I said last night. I then said "well you are mean sometimes" it's the truth...sorry I had to say it to him, but he is mean. I know it was being critical and I should have bit my tongue or said it differently.

We're both pathetic.

Cathy