Newly separated...spouse left, 4th thread

[antlers]

FaithfulH wrote - "With your kids in particular, love 'em up....but, understand they are hurting too. They want the pain to go away and they will say or do anything that their young minds think will make it stop."


Thank You for 'that'. I've been having trouble with my kids, especially the 2 girls...and especially with the 12 y/o! The above statement sheds some light on it. I knew she was bothered with things, and this helps me understand some of why she acts the way she does.