lots of choices and decisions but SOME ARE CLEAR...you cannot be financially screwed but you will be if you don't take some Legal action asap.
Get to a L's office NOW and fix your finances. This is a bad bad sign of things to come if he's so clueless that the bills go to YOU and he does not care to inform you of selling a car with your name on the debt AND taking more debt on? You think that means he did not put you on it? I mean the guy will use you financially as a co-signer I bet, but not tell you. So whatever you choose to do emotionally and DBwise, is for you to decide. I know I'd probably be moving forward closing the door but not locking it. I fear you are not moving ahead enough b/c you are sooo hurt and I would be too.
REGARDLESS OF THAT STUFF...you know you have to fix the legal and financial problems asap and protect yourself and your offspring. So do that and let that be enough for now until you are ready for handling more.
Yeah I hear you about the warm places and new behaviors. Very familiar as Lots of WAS do exactly what the lbs'ers always wanted to do...for awhile....but the real guy will surface and then they'll "meet each other" for real...
Not your problem. Your problem is the financial legal ones and once you start handling those problems, they won't be problems anymore...
((( ))) j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016