Puppy, I couldn't agree with you more... I'm just saying that's why, at least for me, it's so hard to get where SP is because I think the PA makes it so much harder for a guy to get there...
For me, I find it easier to get to where SP is because it seems to me the better place to be in becoming the person who I want to be, that will ultimately cause my WAW to doubt her decisions and possibly reconsider staying as my wife.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3