about your inquiry of asking h to join you... have you tried it before? how has it worked out? my initial thoughts would be to go and do your own thing don't bother to invite or even let him know unless of course he does ask then you can let him know he's welcome to join you.
I must ask...was it h's habit in the past to call you such names "moron" "retarded" etc...or is this a manifestation of the "alien" mind?
