God is certainly so much bigger than any of us and can use all of us as he sees fit! Man, I simply can't say enough about the power of prayer. Keep on praying without giving up! Don't let satan convince you that anything is hopeless. It's not over until God says it's over. Just remember one thing when taking advise--God never contradicts Himself or His word, so pray that you would recognize and reject anything that anyone says that is contrary to His word. God is patient and long sufferring, and the fact of the matter is, he has been answering your prayers all along. Maybe not exactly how/when you expect it, but look at the facts. You aren't divorced and there is still a lot of hope! Yes, it's been a very difficult and painful ride no doubt, but not nearly as painful as the cross that Christ hung on, and we're called to carry our own cross daily. Trust God on this one--he won't leave you nor forsake. Try to have his patience. I say these things because they are all the very lessoons I've had to learn. I will pray for you at least daily. I really want to see you guys succeed, b/c with all that's happened I can see that the two of you really do love one another. Keep your head up!

WP