Cherrish Needs Immediate Help!!!!!

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Cherrishher asked if I might post for him as he has no time or access right now and needs some feedback. He is very stressed and ready to just say F it to the courts.

Quick update;
He is D from W that brought him to these boards.
He is also remarried, but with stresses still being caused by XW.
He was laid off and accepted a job out of state, and then lost that one. Moved back and lived with family until he accepted a job out of state again.
This job is just over half of what he use to make and here is a large problem.
His support and spouse maintanance is so high he can't live.
He went back to court to have it restructured and the judge said it was to much to deal with and put it to trial in November. WTH
His XW is pressuring through atty for payments which he doesn't have.
She also withholds his children from him for money.
With what he pays to her she can live comfortably without working and even have a live in BF she supports.
Like I said he is at his wits end. He can't take care of his kids if he loses his job or ends up in jail because of an assinine system.

Any questions I'll be happy to answer if I can.

Please if anyone has any ideas that might, could, may help him out or find a direction to get relief with the courts please post.

This is happening in California and I have only heard horror stories like this from there.

Thanks all!

For Cherrishher from cire

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