Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Coach,

That all SOUNDS good, and even reasonable. It also sounds VAGUE.

I guess I'll keep posting specific e-mails and convos, and maybe you can help me with another one of those "what if you had said THIS, instead?" things.

I do like the "How can I help?", and was PLEASED to know that I had actually DONE that one!! (remember her "I'm just struggling" TM that started this all this go-around, my reply of "yeah, I noticed. How can I help?")

Maybe I'm not a total incompetent Neanderthal after all???

Puppy
good one. I would have loved to have heard "how can I help?" asked genuinely. Would have melted me.


M60
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D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012