Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

My sense, based on what I have read from SP, is that he would separate the two as independent things. I am getting my head around this too. Regardless of my WAW having a EA and possible PA, she wants to divorce me. I know the desire to D came before the EA. Changing things to address the root cause of the D action is the only thing to focus on, the rest will take care of itself (IMHO).