He knows he can play me because I'm a sympathetic sap.
I think lots of WAS's here...especailly the men, play the female LBS's..it's basically abuse IMO...the male WAS's will play on the emotions of the female LBS IMO...because they have an idea that they can and get by with it...because they have done it before..
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I know what I've opened myself up to but I have been very clear that this is temporary only.
how temporary?? In other words he must be out by what date?? I think you set firm boundaries..I think you tell him you can stay until this day..then your out or I'll have you removed..
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I wonder why he's not living with the broom since he's over there now. WTH is that about? I think I have a right to ask. What do you think?
no i don't think you have a right to know IMO.. you are divorced..you opened your home to him to help him out..he has no right to know what you do in your life and you have no right to know what is up in his..unless it affects Marc..
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How do I counteract that?
I don't think you couteract that...I think you find a way to parent Marc and show him good examples on your own and Gabe will make his life with Marc what it is..Marc will see his dad's true colors one day..
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Please Mike...don't go away. I really value your opinion and appreciate your input. You get me thinking.