PMA wrote to you - "Don't initiate calls. Dont reply to txt right way. Wait an hour or so. If you keep on enabling her CAKE-EATING then she will never miss you. I know it's hard. It seems like it's the opposite of what you should be doing. Just because she says that you neglecting her was way she left. Blah blah!!! She still is the one that left. She is just trying to JUSTIFY her decisions. YOU KNOW THIS ALREADY!!! DONT BELIEVE ANYTHING THEY SAY!!!! She is CONFUSED. STOP REACTING TO HER REACTIONS!!! And Last but not least, my favorite YOU CANT RATIONALIZE WITH IRRATIONAL PEOPLE. WAS's are NOT BEING RATIONAL SO STOP TRYING TO RATIONALIZE. Just detach and GAL/PMA."
Man...that's great advice!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
