damn..I'm actually trying to get away from this but keep getting in deeper and deeper..LOL
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Who knew that my bizarre sitch would lead to such deep, philosophical talk.
I'm not very good with the philosophy part of the discussion..
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Mike, I think the way I would define friendship in this particular case would be this. We can be friendly, kind, considerate, and share innocuous information. I'm not talking a deep friendship here, just friendly. More than civil, less than close. Does that make sense? I know it's weird. You're right in the sense that a friend wouldn't do what they have done to us. However, in forgiving I also had to make a decision to harbor pain in my heart forever or let it go for my own good. That didn't mean that I had to let go of the history of our R and all the good we did have. Could I trust him to not destroy me again in a R or M? NO! I'm not stupid. I can be compassionate, considerate, and kind. That is what I choose to model for my son. It makes him happy to have his dad nearby.
and I get all that..witht he exception of the last sentence..I understand the forgiving..not too close and all that.. I guess I wonder how Marc percieves the return of Gabe...see I wonder if this gives Marc false hope that a reconciliation is taking place?? From what i read you don't see that as possible..so i wonder what Marc thinks??
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So, apparently they are together still and he is playing me for free room and board? No idea. At least he's been working around the house and being with Marc. I don't care what he's doing in his personal life really, I just wish I was clued in.
I think you are clued in...he's got a soft place to land
