VS54,

Thank you for trying to help me understand. I know believe me that I have made mistakes in our marriage and it is not all of his fault but I begged and pleaded for him to please work on our marriage and he wanted nothing to do with it.

I'm just hoping that it's not too late for him to see that he is sick and will get help and want our family back together!!!

I know this is not the man I married!! He would never ever give up his daughter!!! So I'm doing the no contact thing for around 3 weeks now but I don't know how long I should keep it up.

He has not tried to contact me or our daughter since the hearing on the 15th! Your story has inspired me soooo much!!! I hope as I'm sure all that are here get the success that you have received!!


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08