I know where you are coming from and it is a hard decision to weigh. I am in PM's shoes, too, and I cannot expose the A to my younger kids. d17 does know, but the younger ones are 9, 6, and 3. I can't do that to them. D9 is smart she is going to figure it out--probably in the not to distant future and I would not want to be my DH for all the money in the world when she does. Her wrath will be unbelievable.
Our kids will understand that we were trying to protect them from Dad while giving him every opportunity to man up.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7