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I thought if H falls asleep do I wake him? Then thought no, let him sleep there. If he wakes up at midnight and goes, let him explain to OW where he was





Oh Absolutely!!! You wouldn't want to "enable" their "r" (notice the lower case...intentional !) would you?

I think your evening sounded very good (despite the no water thing), you surprised H with your 180 on the BBQ pit thingy.

I think taking swimming lessons with your son is a GREAT idea. And I can ASSURE you that that is the best way to overcome your fear of the water. Exposure to what we fear is the #1 ingredient in treating phobias of all kinds.

Shiny