I can tell you are doing what you think is best for the kids. I I respect that. Just remember though, the affair is what is hurting the kids. The truth of that isn't what will cause harm, it is the action. His affair. Besides, if his affair is such a wonderful thing wouldn't he want the world to know of his new love?
I guess I just get miffed when I see someone treat his spouse and kids as disposable.
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .