Thanks for stopping by my thread and checking on me. I've been taking some time away from here. Thank you so much for all your loving advice and 2x4's, I know what I need to do now, which is accept that I can only change myself and continue to pray for my W and family. Anything else is me trying to control the situation, and I know that doesn't work.
I hope to come back some day and join the "piecing" forum while also helping newbies the way you have been. Until then, please know that you have had a very profound impact on me (and many others here), and I am grateful to God for crossing our paths.