So interesting you mention Raymond. CJ and I watched it last night, we're fans. But you know what? It kind of IRKS me that CJ finds Debra's treatment of Ray so FUNNY!
I mean it IS (it's a sitcom after all...although I myself found it lost it's charm right after my bombs too) funny.
But I know what you mean. She's so scathing, belittling, controlling, sarcastic! ALL the things CJ HATED about me!!!
I too see some similarities, and am caught between laughing and cringing at some parts (even with the parent's R).
Now back to reality: What to say when he asks what you're doing with your life.....
1) I'm finding out how strong a person I am
2) I'm living each moment to the fullest
3) I'm thinking about taking: dance lessons, tai chi, yoga, self defense (that might make him wonder!!! )
I actually like #3 because these are all realistic attainable things (depending on where you live), they are intriguing, and you aren't really committed to any of them!
Might just open the door to further conversation....
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