Actually, SNARKY could actually be his middle name. However, I've been thinking about this... He hasn't been NEARLY as SNARKY since "the bomb." Claims he didn't "care" what went on... Just going on about life w/out investing... Maybe the SNARKINESS returning is good! It's been the way he has been FOREVER! I do notice that if I give it back to him (w/out being blatantly disrespectful) he turns around faster.
This is all just one aspect of "us."
The real issue is his separating of himself physically (sexually) and emotionally (heart) from me. How can he have such a good time with me/us, enjoy himself, look forward to events, and keep that part of "us" that makes "us" "us" absent? I don't get it. We used to go away every anniversary overnight for the weekend... used to go a few times a year, at least overnight for a day or two... used to do out together on "dates." His life now is being w/me because I am w/the kids (it appears), but HE ENJOYS HIMSELF! He's not sitting there mad at me, not complaining about me... He smiles, laughs, asks me to help him w/stories, asks me to recall a funny memory, etc...
Sh*t.
We were the best when he was SNARKIEST... makes me insane, but at least "we" connect then...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
