Ok, then why did I see it a little different? He always says goodnight to the kids. They didn't pass her the phone and he didn't ask that they put her on. I don't think it was so bad to call, in this instance.
Now, when you can get to the point that you are truly calling to say goodnight to the boys, without expecting or hoping her to want to talk, that would be progress. Fake it until you make it.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
