I used to think that way as well. In fact, I would have been the first one to say that telling the truth would always be the BEST POLICY.
However, I have had a change of heart because I am not sure it is ALWAYS in the best interest of my kids. I really don't want the kids to hate their father. They are hurt already. It breaks my heart to see them hurt anymore.
I am sure one day they will find out about OW. And one day, they may or may not blame me for lying to them now. But I hope they will be mature enough to see that I am trying to act for their best interest. I don't want a bitter separation/D. I want life to be more smooth is a very bumpy situation.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
