It's no good kicking yourself for things that you did wrong in the past. It's an ego exercise. The key is to put it to good use and learn something from it. That way, we can grow and become better versions of ourselves.
Patience, reflection, wisdom.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09