Inn I believe if you are OK,D will be OK keep telling her MOmmy is sad but will ok R breakups are part of live the kids can know that the cinderella story was a fairy tale this is rel life and its ok I tell my kids daddy still loves them thias was not their fault daddy has some issues to work on not all M last forever I got them and yjr M was good and loving for a time Mommy is OK( even if your not you wuill be cause you are working thru the grief they must grieve too in their own way the kids as for your H his behavior is very typical and many have gone thru the same no talking not wanting to be in same room as W WE can not really understand what happened they are having an A-most of them are in a MLC and since so many of them seem to display similar traits we have to assume its all part of the way they handle their guilt by blaming us not wantiung to talk--hard to understand their process as we are not there nor have been it is not you peace
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