Inn
I believe if you are OK,D will be OK
keep telling her MOmmy is sad but will ok
R breakups are part of live
the kids can know that the cinderella story was a fairy tale
this is rel life and its ok
I tell my kids daddy still loves them
thias was not their fault
daddy has some issues to work on
not all M last forever
I got them and yjr M was good and loving for a time
Mommy is OK( even if your not you wuill be cause you are working thru the grief
they must grieve too in their own way the kids
as for your H
his behavior is very typical and many have gone thru the same
no talking
not wanting to be in same room as W
WE can not really understand what happened
they are having an A-most of them are in a MLC
and since so many of them seem to display similar traits
we have to assume its all part of the way they handle their guilt
by blaming us
not wantiung to talk--hard to understand their process as we are not there nor have been
it is not you
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow