Here is my old thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1750486&page=1#Post1750486

Basically, H had A and left. I waited and waited and db'd my as* off. He's decided not to come back. I have started new career and planning to move home to be with my family, far far away.

Coming to grips with things. Little or no chance or recon. Trying to build a new, happy, full life. Not bitter but loving detachment.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'