Ok, I get it. Not offended at all.

You are right in a sense Mike. I think women are just more open in general. Total Mars/Venus thing. Unless there was outright abuse then is there any reason to be shut down to the father of my child? IMO, no. I told him yesterday that I thought it would just be ridiculous to not be friends after so many years together. He knows that there is nothing more than that and we're both good with that. In the end, the only thing that matters to me is that Marc has both his parents accessible to him.

How will it play out? Good question....stay tuned. How do I hope it will? I hope he will find a job, find a place to live, and get a life for himself while maintaining his R with his son. One can always hope, right?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!