I would do whatever it takes to be on that field with your son. You have planned this, paid for his ticket, you are the assistant coach and most importantly his father.
Ian is exactly right. She wants you to quit, she wants you to break. DO NOT let that happen. I wouldn't say another word about this to her. "Just do it" comes to mind. If that means getting up at the crack of dawn, so be it.
This is about you and your son making wonderful memories and she can't stand it. As for all that "strong arm" crap, I know I don't have to remind you of this but I will anyway.....
