Trying to detach from the madness!

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I am excited and sad about D's graduation. Its bittersweet. She is so ready to move on in life, but I love her to stay my little girl. This is the D that has given me a bit of a run for my money. Not horrible, but I have had to be on top of her a bit more than my older D. She has a very strong personality. We had our rough patch when she was about 15/16. Now we get along great and are very close.

Her graduation is on the 12th and after her dad and I are having a big party for her. He and I have always been able to work well together and get along great.

What are your plans for your d's graduation Kass?

Anyway, not one little word from exh yesterday. He only sent one text in the last 3 days! Very strange. I love it as now I can feel how detaching really is. I can only guess what suckage drama is going on in exh's life. Today is a visit day so ????

Yes, A runs in families. Exh's father died at 42 of a drug/alcohol overdose. 75% of exh's siblings have addiction issues as well. Even some of the siblings kids have issues. You would think they saw enough and wouldn't want to be like that. Well, exh does think he isn't like his father but his mother says he is right where his father was at that age. *Sigh** I have to keep baby out of that cycle.