I was thinking about this last night before i fell asleep. Should I let people know about his EA with the chick from England? He's living in his fantasy world of yahoo chat rooms, texts, and phone calls . . . I don't think he's really put much thought into what it would really be like if he were to bring her over here. I know his family would not approve or accept her. His friends would be polite I'm sure, but they've already told me that they know whatever's going on has nothing to do with me so they might start saying things to him to snap him out of this la la land. I know that once I say something and he finds out he will either get angry or he might just start telling people and acting like he's proud of his decision. Either way I end up looking stupid.
I'm not sure if I've mentioned this, but his parents split up a few years ago after his father had a couple of PA one of which started in a chat room. So, he has seen this happen to his mother and was not very tolerant of it when it was going on. He actually said that his father should just be on his own and figure out his life instead of turning to other people to solve his problems. Funny how it doesn't seem to apply to him now that the shoe's on the other foot.
Anyway, what are your opinions of telling people about this EA? Is it better to act like it's not there or to expose it and shed some reality on the situation?
